In today’s video, we’re going to talk about how to move forward, what is the process, and what are the indications that a person is moving forward.
if you want to be happy and free again in your life, just keep on watching.
Hi guys! Welcome back to my channel.
I’m Jiggs and let’s talk about those things you need to know so that you can move forward with your life.
Does anyone want to be sad right? No one.
This is your chance to be happy again whatever is there now in your life.
If you still don’t understand the difference between MOVE ON to MOVE FORWARD, you can watch the video linked above.
Before I start, I just want you to understand that there is no one-size fits all solution for all your problems.
But that doesn’t mean there is no solution at all.
Actually, there are many ways, there are many solutions and there is much to learn.
I believe no matter what experience you have in your life all you want is the result of everything: It is to be happy and be free.
Let’s talk about how this can happen.
Are you ready? Let’s jump into it.
There are 3 stages of moving forward.
First up is the “Rough Diamond Beginnings”, “Healing and Forgiveness”, and “Hope of Better Tomorrow”.
Each stage is made up of principles and indicators so you know if you’re on the right path or way for you to move forward.
Stage # 1: Rough Diamond Beginnings I want you to insert immediately into your mind the quotation of Thomas Carlyle, he said: “No pressure, no diamond.
” You may not be seeing yourself as a diamond right now and you may be feeling really down.
But the diamond cannot be formed when there is no pressure and no heat.
It means that, problems and trials are really part of our lives because no one is exempted.
So keep in mind that you are a diamond.
Such a mindset requires great commitment.
Committed you should that you are a diamond which is in the process of polishing and molding.
To get you started be sure to check and list the things you learned, include the things that are causing your sadness, as well as the people who are always there for you.
To be more aware of your surroundings and you can avoid the things that will upset you.
To turn around again the world you imagine stop for you.
The point is, even though the raw diamond is out of shape, not brilliant, broken, or unfinished, its value will never decrease.
It’s like you, you’re still a diamond and nothing can lower your value.
So don’t waste your time and start your life over again.
Stage # 2: Healing and Forgiveness You just know that it’s at this stage when you think it’s ok and you start over again in your life.
But suddenly you see things again can cause you pain.
Don’t worry, it’s natural to experience that.
Because, it is like this.
When you get hurt and your wound is in the process of healing, you will feel itchy.
The type you want to reach that if you scratch it you will definitely hurt again.
You need to understand that you have the opportunity to choose, you can scratch it or not.
But you will always remember that you never will choose the consequences of your choices.
You can’t blame it on others because in the first place, it’s up to you.
You choose to endure and be patient with yourself.
If you do not scratch the itching wound it is healing fast, isn’t it? You can do this when you begin to forgive yourself.
Yes, you heard it right.
You must first learn to forgive yourself before you can forgive others.
Why? Because it’s impossible to give something away that you yourself don’t have it.
Forgive your old self and stop blaming others.
Once you have learned these things you are the height of your face against those who hurt you and you can tell yourself you are not the same person they met before.
Stage # 3: Hope of Better Tomorrow I agree with Paulo Coelho’s quotation, he said: “If you’re brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.
” At this stage you must understand, that you should spend time in preparing for the new hope that will come for you.
Just imagine if you just crumble and do nothing is as you say you don’t want to leave your past.
What if that new hope came to you? What will you do? Life is tough.
That’s true but it is also true that the hardships of life are not permanent.
Because life is like a wheel, when you’re down, you must be preparing for the ascent of your life.
You will be steadfast and you will be strong to face all the challenges that come to you.
Your capacity will increase to overcome everything and change yourself.
In my opinion, God is still preparing you to experience it and you will pass through all the trials of your life.
Actually, He also knows exactly why you need to going through all that.
So for me, I know I need to experience what I am experiencing today because I can appreciate it to be happy and to be free.
Later on in your life you will learn to be happy and free even if you are just in the first stage of moving forward.
Why? It’s because “Happiness is a choice.
” The earlier you choose to be happy, the earlier you become happy.
So if you are still thinking embark on a journey to change your life, keep in mind that Lemony Snicket said this, he said: “If we wait until we’re ready, we’ll be waiting for the rest of our lives.
” So what are you going to do now? If I were you, choose to be happy.
Choose to be free.
Choose to move forward.
Because no one will do it for you but, ONLY YOU! As you ponder over the things I have said you can watch the videos next to me to help you in your life as well.
Again, many thanks for watching Bye!.